Saying that sex is fun and feels amazing is perhaps the most unneeded statement in the history of mankind. Of course sex is fun. Of course it’s amazing. To claim anything else would sound foolish to the vast majority of the population. With that said, however, it’s possible for sex to be even better than it is now.
There are several little things both men and women can do to increase the length and the depth of their orgasm, leading to greater pleasure and a deeper satisfaction during and after sex. Both the male orgasm and the female orgasm can be improved by following these 9 tips laid out below. These tips can even help you achieve an anal orgasm or a nipple orgasm if they are well applied. So if you want the best orgasm in your life, or if you have trouble achieving orgasm at all, then follow these tips.
Here is an overview of them all:
Women aren’t the only ones with a g-spot. Men have one as well in the form of a bundle of nerves near the prostate. These nerves can be stimulated externally by applying pressure to the perineum which is the area between the testicles and the anus. Applying pressure here during sex increases pleasure by an amazing amount. However, to bring that pleasure even higher, those nerves have to be stimulated directly. Simply have your partner lube up the pad of one of their fingers and have them slip it into your butt. The bundle of nerves can be felt about two inches in and it’s incredibly sensitive. It’s possible for a man to have an anal orgasm by just stimulating these bundles of nerves, and the orgasm it creates is incredibly powerful. Every man should try it at least once. You won’t be disappointed.
When it comes to women, applying friction to the area above the clitoris can lead to a particularly powerful orgasm. For the guys out there, the clitoris is immensely sensitive. Because of this, it might be best for women to take a lead on this. To start, get on top of your partner and lean forward so the top of your clitoris is rubbing against your partner’s pubic bone. This can lead to a wonderful sensation unlike any other. You can also lay on your back with a pillow beneath your butt to get the same effect. Another option is to use a vibrator during sex. Simply use it to stimulate the area above your clitoris during sex. The added sensation is sure to please,
Exercising before sex can lead to better orgasms. During exercise, endorphins are released by the brain which increases our body’s sensitivity to touch. This added sensitivity can lead to more satisfying and pleasurable sex. Not only that, but men who exercise have increased testosterone levels which have been shown to increase the power of orgasms. So if things are much too cool in the bedroom for your liking, just go for a run or take a dance class just before having sex. This can be a sure fire way to get things hot again.
Kegels can benefit both men and women. Kegels work by squeezing and flexing your pelvic floor, strengthening the muscles there which can help with childbirth, incontinence, and even orgasms. By doing kegel exercises, both men and women can experience greater orgasms. Give it a try and just squeeze your pelvic muscles. These are the same muscles that you use to hold it in when you really have to go to the bathroom, so their easy to recognize. Doing a few reps daily can help you achieve better sex in as little as a week depending on how often you do the exercise. For women, kegels will create stronger vaginal orgasms. For men, kegels may actually help produce stronger erection that last longer.
The difference between good sex and great sex is knowing what you and your body likes and knowing what your partner and their body likes. Regular masturbation can help with this. It’s good to experiment and see what you enjoy. You might even be surprised with how your body reacted to certain stimuli. You may even be one of the few who can experience a nipple orgasm. Also take the time to explore your partner’s body and pay attention to their reactions as you do. Get well acquainted in order to make sure you’re giving them the best pleasure that you can. Not only is this helpful, but it can be a nice bonding experience as well.
Toys aren’t just for kids anymore. Several adult toys exist that can help you and your partner achieve a more profound orgasm. The usual standbys like dildos and vibrators are always useful. As well, there are massagers, penis sleeves, and a variety of lotions and lubricants that can be used to have more fun during sex. These toys can even be used just for masturbation. Also, it’s important to remember that using toys during sex is perfectly fine, and shouldn’t be seen as a reflection of your or your partner’s performance.
Seemingly obvious but so often ignored. It’s important to communicate with your partner what you like and dislike. How else are they going to know the proper way to please you? It might be embarrassing at first, but a clear and frank discussion about your wants, needs, and what feels good to you will do wonders with your sex life.
Edging is the practice of delaying gratification during sex. When you feel you’re about 90 percent of the way toward an orgasm, stop and slow down. By delaying gratification you can build up to an even bigger climax. You can do this two or three times before finally going all the way. The orgasm you have will be much stronger and more satisfying because you delayed it for so long.
When having sex, the best way to have a better orgasm is to focus on the sex itself. Don’t let your mind wander and simply allow yourself to be in the moment. It’s amazing what just a little bit of concentration can do for your orgasm. People that focus on sex while having sex are more likely to experience greater levels of satisfaction afterwards. So don’t think about what’s for dinner later or about work or bills. Just focus solely on the act.
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By following these tips you’ll be able to have an even better orgasm. If you thought sex was great before, just wait until you try these nine ways to deepen and intensify your orgasm. Both you and your partner will be thankful you did, and it just may lead to the best sex of your life.
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